A Peek Into Our Home For Christmas

Welcome to our humble abode! It’s the day before Christmas Eve and I’m giving you a peek into my favorite room in our townhome and how we decorated it for the holiday season. When it comes to interior decorating, I prefer a neutral color scheme and minimalist decor for a clean overall look.

For the longest time, our pre-lit artificial Christmas tree was covered in red, silver and gold decorations when it was set up in a different room. The “white room,” as I’d like to call it, is my favorite room in the house because it has a ton of natural light coming through the sliding french doors that open up to the front patio, a large window by the fireplace, ivory-painted walls, white leather furniture and a white shag rug that we just recently put in there. Last year was actually the first year we put the tree in the white room and since John and I tend to butt heads when it comes to how we decorate the house, we compromised and made some minor changes to appease one another and our different styles so we’re both happy with the way it turned out.Since we have a purple accent wall and purple drapes, I wanted to incorporate a pop of purple on the Christmas tree with just a handful of purple ornaments to offset the white and silver decor on the tree and throughout room. The faux fur stockings that hang off silver snowflake stocking holders that I bought at Target a couple years ago are just the perfect touch to give the room a slightly cozier feel while I opted for white, gold and silver wrapping paper for the presents under our tree to keep the look consistent. (Pssst! I’m letting you in on a little secret. Kudos to the hubs for doing such a fantastic job wrapping all of the presents under our tree.)All of our Christmas decorations including the ornaments on the tree and wrapping paper are from Hobby Lobby, Michaels or Home Goods. I’ve linked similar options below:

[Photography Credit]: Jennafer Ashley of Fresh and Fit

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Last Minute Gift Guide For Her & Him

We’re getting close, friends! Only four more days until Christmas. I know there are a few procrastinators out there, including myself, who still need to finish shopping (or get started) with their Christmas gift list, but you might be feeling slightly overwhelmed because you don’t know where to start and time is running out.

First, take a deep breath because four days is still plenty of time to knock off that list and find the perfect gift(s). If you haven’t noticed, the internet and social media is oversaturated with fashion and lifestyle bloggers (Ahem!) who have been kind enough to share their personal gift guides and ideas with all of you so all you have to do is login to your Instagram account, scroll through your feed or type in ‘Gift Ideas’ on Google and you’ll be directed to articles and blogs dedicated to helping you knock off everyone on your list.

Now, I’m not going to dedicate this entire post to every possible gift idea out there because, well, it’s four days before Christmas and I would need more than one day to come up with the perfect gift idea for everyone on your list (whom I’ve never met), and quite frankly, I just don’t have that kind of time. What I will do though, is share my personal list that includes some of my favorite items for Her & Him in my top gift buying categories to use as a guide from some of my favorite local and online retailers that ensure delivery by December 24 or that you can easily run out to, including clothes, shoes, handbags, accessories, beauty, electronics and experiences in hopes of making your last few shopping days a little more bearable.



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Wedding Etiquette: The Do’s and Don’ts

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We’ve all questioned at one time or another what is appropriate wedding attire, how much money to spend on the wedding gift or how long you have after the wedding to send out your thank-you notes. Hey, guess what? These are valid questions and concerns.  Luckily, there are a ton of wedding articles and rules of etiquette on the web that can answer these questions or hopefully someone with more experience you can turn to. Yet despite all of these resources at one’s disposal, there are many adults who lack good manners and an understanding of general wedding etiquette; therefore, I have taken the liberty of compiling a list of do’s and don’ts that sometimes get overlooked, which could ultimately spare you from potential embarrassment or unintentionally offending someone you care about.

The Do’s & Dont’s

Don’t invite anyone to your pre-wedding day celebrations you aren’t inviting to your wedding. This is a big no-no and probably the most important rule of wedding etiquette. Why make anyone feel they’re only important enough to come to your bridal shower and ‘shower’ you with a gift or cover the cost of your drinks all night at your last hurrah as a bachelor or bachelorette, but not important enough to celebrate with you on your big day? It’s rude and people will take it personally. While your intentions may be golden and think having them be apart of one of your events is better than none at all, they will feel excluded and confused.

Don’t ask the bride and groom if you can bring a casual date to the wedding, or worse, show up with an unexpected guest. Your friends, more than likely, already know your dating situation and will address the invitation to you and guest. You’ll probably have more fun attending solo anyway over tending to a date who doesn’t know anyone.

Do mention your friend’s significant other on the invitation if you know their name and they are cohabiting, if you want them both to attend. Not doing so, could easily create confusion on their end and you risk having a potential guest forgo your event if they think they aren’t welcome.

Don’t mail back an RSVP with plus-four and your children’s names with the intent of bringing the entire clan if the invitation doesn’t address each member of the family. Invitations are meant for only those who are mentioned so leave the kiddos at home and enjoy an adults-only evening with your spouse.

Do give a wedding gift. A wedding gift generally symbolizes a token of affection and is a thoughtful gesture to express your best wishes for the happy couple. If you’re questioning what is considered an ‘appropriate’ gift amount, use your relationship to the couple as a point of reference. Additionally, TheKnot.com gives a ballpark to aim for, recommending $50-$75 on a co-worker and/or a distant family friend and $100-200+ on a close friend or relative. Moreover, you generally have up to a year after the wedding date to send a gift so there really should be no excuse for attending someone’s wedding without so much as even a card.

Now, you might be contemplating if this same rule applies to destination weddings and if there are exceptions to the rule. Technically, a wedding gift should still be given when attending a destination wedding; however, with the additional expenses associated with destination weddings, don’t feel pressured to spend more than you are comfortable with. Most couples would agree that having their guests present is truly a gift in itself.

Do look presentable. Gentlemen, put on a sport coat, a freshly pressed pair of slacks and a button up, at the very least. If the invitation specifies the wedding will be a formal event, then a suit and tie are required. Don’t show up to a wedding in jeans and a t-shirt unless the invitation says otherwise or you are going to a backyard BBQ. Ladies, a tasteful knee-length cocktail dress works well for any occasion and a long gown is suitable for a formal affair, but please do not wear white unless the bride and groom have requested their guests do so. Not ivory, not cream and not even a white suit. This is the oldest rule in the book. If your outfit of choice has to have some white, then white colorblock will suffice. Most importantly, use your best judgment and let the bride and groom shine on their special day.

Don’t wait too long before sending out thank-you notes. The general rule to send out thank-you notes after a bridal shower are two to three weeks from the day of the event and within three months from the day of your wedding. Any wedding gifts you receive before your wedding should be acknowledged before the wedding day. If you wait too long, your guests may think you never received their wedding gift or that it was lost or stolen, resulting in that awkward phone call or text message asking if you ever received it.

Do personalize your thank-you notes. If your guests are able to take time out of their schedules to be there to celebrate with you and bring you a gift, then you should take time to express your gratitude. A handwritten thank-you note with a personal touch is still appreciated over a generic typed up message even in today’s digital world.

Don’t ask someone to stand up in your wedding with whom you don’t have a strong relationship or only do so out of obligation. Your wedding party should be your closest friends or family members and who you know will be there for you. It really is an honor to be included and asked to stand up, but there are a lot of expenses and duties that come with being apart of someone’s wedding. Your wedding party should include the people you can count on, have meaningful relationships with and will continue to be there for you after the wedding. If you ask someone with whom you don’t have a strong relationship, you take the risk of them accepting the role because they don’t want to let you down or they feel pressured to do so, which could result in them complaining through the entire process, or worse, pulling out at a later date. If you do commit to standing up in someone’s wedding, then you should genuinely want to be there for that person and do all that is asked of you.

Don’t ask someone to stand up in your wedding as a backup. No one wants to be second choice and you don’t need to fill spots just to have the same number of bridesmaids as there are groomsmen, and vice versa. This isn’t a popularity contest so don’t fret if the groom asked eight of his closest friends while you only asked four.

Don’t be a bridezilla and demanding of your bridal party. Your bridesmaids should be there to make your wedding day and days leading up to it run smoothly and less stressful. Bridesmaids are typically in charge of hosting the bachelorette party, sometimes assist in the planning and executing of the bridal shower, and should help with any miscellaneous tasks such as sending out invitations, dress shopping or DIY projects. With that being said, don’t expect your bridesmaids to be available at the snap of your fingers if you don’t give them prior notice or a couple options with available dates. When it comes to your bachelorette party, don’t demand they pay for a luxurious hotel suite, cover all costs for an expensive long weekend in Las Vegas and mandate they purchase a table at a club with bottle service. You should give your bridesmaids or MOH an idea of what you would like to do, but ultimately, this is a party they host and one they should agree on and take charge.FullSizeRender-8 copy

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